I am Here to Help
I spent 25 years in IT as a developer, architect, and consultant. I know your world from the inside: the pressure, the constant problem-solving, the identity that gets quietly wrapped up in being the person who has all the answers.
I also know what it feels like when that stops being enough.
My coaching is for heads of IT, architects, VPs, directors, and senior tech leaders who are navigating the gap between the career they've built and the life they actually want. Not because something has gone catastrophically wrong — but because something important is asking to change.
This is not generic life coaching. It is focused, structured work: on who you are beneath the role, what you actually need, and what a next chapter built on your own terms could look like.
How we work together
We meet weekly or bi-weekly. 60-minute sessions by video, or in person if you're in Eindhoven, Netherlands. Between sessions, you have direct support via WhatsApp, Signal, or Slack. We set clear goals at the start of the engagement and review progress at structured intervals.
The work itself is open, honest and demanding. I ask questions that cut through the noise. I don't tell you what to do - I help you get clear on what you actually want, and then build the path toward it together.
What I bring that most coaches cannot: I understand your world without needing it explained. The corporate world, the politics, the way identity fades away in seniority and technical credibility. I've lived it. I hear you. I understand.
Is this for you?
This work is for you if:
You are successful...
... by every external measure - and quietly exhausted by it.
You have started wondering...
... whether what comes next looks anything like what came before.
You are the person with answers...
... for everyone else,
but you have no clear answers for yourself.
You know something needs to change...
... but you haven't had the space, or permission, to figure out what.
If any of this sounds familiar, the right next step is a conversation. No commitment, no pitch. Just an honest discussion about where you are and whether working together makes sense.
Coaching Packages
Leadership Reset
For tech leaders who know something needs to change but can't see the path yet.
Together we'll uncover what's draining you, clear the blocks, and build a plan forward — on your terms.
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Weekly 1:1 sessions
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Unlimited support between sessions via WhatsApp, Signal, or Slack
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Structured reflection exercises
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Progress review at the midpoint
Deep Dive
For leaders navigating a significant transition — stepping into a new role, recovering from burnout, or reinventing what's next.
This is deep, sustained work that creates lasting change.
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Weekly 1:1 sessions
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Unlimited support between sessions via WhatsApp, Signal, or Slack
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Goal setting and structured reflection exercises
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Progress review every 8 weeks
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Personalized resources and tools throughout
Clarity Sprint
A focused diagnostic session.
For leaders who want to understand where they are before committing to a longer engagement.
In 120 minutes, you'll have a clear map of what's draining you and what needs to change first.
You've built an impressive career in tech. You've led teams, delivered hard things, and been the person others rely on when it gets complicated.
But somewhere along the way, the role stopped energising you — or you stopped being able to feel it. The work is still there. The responsibility is still there. The title is still there.
Something else isn't.
You're not sure what's wrong, exactly. You just know that performing competence on the outside while running on empty on the inside is not sustainable — and it's not who you are.